Giving Un-bidden advice can be insulting To A disabled person.

I need to share with you -- Why it can be insulting to throw out advice when you have NO knowledge of The situation.

I have answered over 2500 emails to People that Comment on my U-tube Postings, Actually THANKING

Me for Un-precedented honesty that people never hear. I do not "give Advice" unless ASKED for. How can I assume I know their history-What they have BEEN Thru! (60,000 or more people have viewed my video's And I have over 250 subscriptions)

I have found dispensing unbidden advice is like telling someone they are ignorant. I have been Ill my entire life & Dieter's Tea sound,s Ignorant. I am not saying this in A derogatory manner & do not want to offend you but I feel unless you KNOW--Don't Throw-Advice

My grandma was sick & died recently from FM, I have been sick since young, My sister shot herself In Her heart because SHE COULD not Take ONE MORE DAY OF PAIN--Her suicide note. My brother died from complications at 28 years old last year & So on!

I am hanging on by my fingertips that are tearing off right now, So that may be why my response is EXTREME! hopefully you will learn from this and

Do not take it as an insult. This letter will be

Posted on my blog as A tool for others also.

FIBRO HELL MICHELLE

Fibro WOMEN, Rebel against Hysterectomies

READ THIS BEFORE HAVING A HYSTERECTOMY!

My FIBRO increased and gave me A new present called

RSD (severe pain of no known origens)

Inguinal ligaments are a major cause of pain in both men and women.

These ligaments are long tight bands, cords, that run diagonally where your leg meets your torso. If you are sitting up you can put a pencil on each side where the fold is where your body stops and your thighs start. That line is exactly how they run.

When you're lying down roll the area gently. If you poke it will hurt a lot.

Roll it as if you are rolling a pencil under the skin, back and forth from torso to thigh. In that tight band there are often thickenings, and actually hard areas. These areas put pain on nerves as we have a lot of nerves in that area (surprise, surprise, but nature does want us to reproduce!!!)

In men this can cause scrotal pain (and pain down the inside of the leg right up there. (One of my sons --he'll kill me if I say who--had this when he was young. I was a single mom and I had some interesting conversations with male friends about whether or not men had growing pains in this area.) In women this can cause pelvic pain, deep and also down the leg.

When you have these pains sometimes you can get yourself into a weird position that looks like a dead bug and the pain will be better. Heat can also help this area because it's near the surface.

..Musculoskeletal Syndrome "Inguinal ligaments connect the front part of the hip bone to the pubic bone. The outer portion is almost always swollen, especially in women.

It produces pain across the lowest part of the abdomen by constantly pulling and irritating where it splays across the pubic bone. If doctors fail to put their hands on that ligament and examine it for swelling, they'll erroneously suspect ovarian or bladder problems."

Fibro Hell, Day In The life

Fibro Hell, Day In The life

by Michelle Certonio on Thursday, June 10, 2010 at 2:41pm

Gardening and Biking

Are long lost

One more FOOL tells me to exercise

Or change my diet--

AAHHHHHH!

I AM 43 YEARS OLD! IN FIBRO HELL for 20 Years!

Don't you think? I THOUGHT of that?

I have worked since I was 10

You think it is my choice

Too stay in bed, Stay home, Stay inside

MY LIFE IS PASSING BY!

I have tried ALL Treatments

Taken Abuse by IGNORANT Dr.'s

Well meaning friends

AND FAMILY -- THAT CAN NOT SEE -- ME

Now Drug Companies Tell MORE lies

Commercialize OUR Lives

I wake each Morning, Night & Hour

In Level 10 pain

Still No Cure, NO Answer

I WILL TRY

STAND, FIGHT BY YOUR SIDE

DIE A Little more Each Day

Try not to go insane

While Invisible Pain TAKES away Each DAY

FIBRO HELL MICHELLE

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  Anna Beth Williams-Detloff OMG! OMG! OMG! Someone really knows me, the pain I go through on a daily bases. The hell I live in. Everyone says that since I look alright that 'it' can't be that bad. Why aren't you working? My precious husband is working/has worked so...See MoreJune 10 at 4:53pm · Like